Mishpatim

Mishpatim: Sequel to Sinai

February 09, 2018 By: rabbi jay kelman
It is common after a major event to have difficulty getting back into our daily routine. Whether it is a child's wedding, an exotic vacation or a summer at camp, rarely do we feel ready to return to our daily schedule. Surely the excitement of the events surrounding the receiving of the Torah at Sinai would seem to affect our daily activities similarly! The thunder, lightning, and masses of people all gathered to hear the first two...
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Mishpatim: Say What You Mean

February 24, 2017 By: rabbi jay kelman
Modern man loves his freedom. No one is going to tell him how to act. This is why giving criticism, even when constructive, is so hard and usually ineffective. It is no coincidence that the obligation to rebuke a person committing a wrong is juxtaposed with the prohibition “Do not hate your brother in your heart” (Vayikra 19: 17). While constructive criticism is a sign of love, it often generates friction between people. We like to...
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Mishpatim: Talking Points

February 05, 2016 By: rabbi jay kelman
"Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me". This popular aphorism reflects the notion that it is physical harm to others that is most dangerous. As we all know this is a simplistic and ultimately dangerous notion. Emotional and psychological harm can be and usually does have deeper and longer lasting impact. The severe Torah prohibitions on gossip and slander reflect this reality. Inflicting non-physical hurt...
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Mishpatim: Divine Justice, Human Mercy

February 13, 2015 By: rabbi jay kelman
"An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hand for a hand, a foot for a foot” (21:24). Perhaps no Biblical verse has generated as much controversy regarding its true meaning. As is well known, traditional Jewish exegesis has always maintained that this verse requires monetary compensation for bodily injuries caused; monetary compensation only. Critics throughout the ages have argued that the true meaning of the text is exactly what...
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Mishpatim: Follow the Leader

January 24, 2014 By: rabbi jay kelman
"Do not be a follower of the majority for bad, do not respond to a grievance by yielding to the majority to pervert [justice]" (Shemot 23:2). In the next verse we read "Do not favour the poor". Today's world so often supports the underdog en masse, regardless of the validity of their claim. While such sentiments may be well-intentioned, it does not make them right, regardless of how many people back it. While...
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