Vayezei: Making One Pray

November 27, 2020 By: Rabbi Jay Kelman
"And G-d saw that Leah was hated, and He opened her womb" (Breisheet 29:31). Apparently, Leah—as was the case with Sarah, Rivka, and Rachel—was meant to have difficulty conceiving, but as "compensation" for being hated, G-d granted her easy conception. The inability to have children when one desperately wants to can be a source of great sadness and suffering. How one reacts to such a predicament can be quite...
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VaYetze: From Yaakov to Yisrael

December 06, 2019 By: Rabbi Jay Kelman
“And Yaakov was a pure man, dwelling in the tents” (Breisheet 25:27). Like his father before him, Yaakov had little interest in the wider world surrounding him, preferring to remain near home, engrossed in study. He was the direct opposite to his twin brother, who was “a man of the field”. The fact that Yaakov was cooking soup while his brother was out hunting exemplifies their very different personalities.  But...
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Vayetze: The Complexity of Chesed

November 16, 2018 By: Rabbi Jay Kelman
The Torah is a most complex work, and nowhere more so than in sefer Breisheet. Story after story lends itself to multiple and contradictory interpretations. The Torah often leaves out crucial details as it narrates the stories, and rarely passes judgment on the actions of the protagonists. Was Avraham correct to go to Egypt when famine struck Israel? Was it appropriate to enter a peace deal with Avimelech? Did Yaakov act correctly in...
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VaYetze: G-d is Against Me

November 24, 2017 By: Rabbi Jay Kelman
The experiences of history have made our people a nervous lot. Whatever nervousness is warranted as members of the human race is significantly multiplied for those of the Jewish persuasion. We tend to be nervous even when there is little to be nervous about.  This is a trait that goes back to Yaakov Avinu, the founding father of the Jewish nation. “[And G-d said] I am with you, I will protect you” (Breishhet 28:15). Yet despite...
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VaYetze: Listen to Your Mother

December 08, 2016 By: Rabbi Jay Kelman
The Torah tells us nothing about the upbringing of Abraham; we do not even know the name of his mother. All we know about him is that he was the oldest of Terach’s three children, married to Sarai who was barren, and his father for some unknown reason started on a journey to the land of Canaan. We know precious little about Yitzchak’s upbringing, save for the fact that his mother was fearful of Yishmael’s influence upon him...
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